Love your body
There is nothing that turns a man off faster than a woman who is obsessed with her weight, stretch marks, or other criticism of her body. My theory goes like this—if you don’t point it out, he’s not going to notice. The magic here is in your attitude. The body you have right now is the only one you have to make love with so you might as well embrace it.  Turn off the lights in your room, light a few candles and stand naked in front of a mirror.  OK, so you don’t look like a centerfold—most likely he doesn’t either! Really take a look at your body, the luscious curves, the smooth texture of your skin, how your hair moves as you turn your head. Walk around and get comfortable with yourself. Clean your room naked or whatever it takes to release some of the taboo’s you might feel about bodily flaws and the need to cover yourself up. The more freedom you feel with your own body, the better your sex life will become.  No more hiding under the covers, turning the lights out so its pitch black when you make love, or wrapping yourself in the sheets as you walk to the bathroom. It’s about time you strut your stuff—and trust me, it’s a turn on.  A trick that always works for me, make sure you wait until he’s in the room before you get dressed in the morning or undressed at night—and then take your bra off while facing his direction. Keep chatting as usual, then turn around to give him a good glance at your derriere before pulling your underwear on! Do this all at your usual speed as if it is nothing out of the ordinary. A little flesh goes a long way.